A Christian sister of mine asked me the other day, nonchalantly, what we thought about Halloween. I took a deep breath wondering if she really wanted to know or was it the usual: I already have my mind made up and hope your answer makes me feel good about my decision thing?
Well, I told her that being it was a satanic holiday we did not celebrate it.
Then, she did what I hoped she wouldn't, she went into the excuse bag. She had some wonderful "reasons" why she and her husband felt it was ok to dress their little angels up in cute little Pottery Barn Halloween outfits and go get some candy.
I then told her that I didn't believe Jesus would condone us to celebrate a day honoring Satan and a day where people use it as an excuse to be bad all for the sake of cuteness.
I may have lost a friend that day.
Are you a Christian friend? Do you profess Jesus as your Savior?
One thing I have learned through the years of much growth and yielding to the Holy Spirit is this....If I hear that still small voice whispering to my heart, "you should not do this," then who am I to argue? It is the Holy Spirit speaking to our hearts, leading us from harm, helping us discern right from wrong. I may not know all of the reasons why I should or shouldn't do something, for example Halloween, but I know through out the years I have heard that voice say that it's not ok. I can rationalize, argue, and ignore, but it doesn't change the fact that to disobey is a sin.
If you are a person who needs a visual example envision this...
Say we plant the seed of Halloween in our children's' hearts. Getting them the cute outfits, trick or treating, harvest parties, etc. Oh, aren't they cute!
Then, when they are teenagers they don't want to be a princess anymore, they want to dress up like a vampire from a movie they watched. Uh, ok. Not so cute. But, what can we do? We have already opened the door.
Then, they go to college. Where, I learned from experience, they throw very large Halloween parties. Now, your sweet princess is dressed up like a hooker with a lot of cleavage showing.. She is not inhaling chocolate bars and Candy Corn anymore. She is downing some sort of vodka mix that was in a cauldron with cool smoke coming out of it. Hmm. Like a lot of sin, it starts out mostly harmless. But as we keep doing it, our appetite grows.
Baby Rachel has learned the word "no." And, she says it so sweetly with her little baby voice. But, if I keep allowing her to say it without disciplining her, it will grow ugly. It will not be a sweet little "no" anymore, it will be a defiant two or three yr. old sticking their tongue out at me and saying "no."
So, there is my rant on Halloween.
We stopped celebrating Halloween 9 years ago. At first we didn't really know why, but both Ryan and I felt it was wrong for our family.
ReplyDeleteSo, I know how you feel when people look at you funny and start making excuses. I've learned, like you, to try to discern who really wants to know why we do what we do, and who is really just asking just to ask.
Another Perspective:
ReplyDeleteI would suggest you read the book Redeeming Halloween: Celebrating Without Selling Out written by Kim Wier and Pam McCune. It is a Focus on the Family book published by Tyndale House. Although I have not personally come to a solid conclusion in my belief system regarding Halloween, this book offers some very interesting background information and knowledge regarding the infamous holiday. I think you may find it interesting to understand the origins of the holiday established in A.D. 741.
I hold high regards for the Focus on the Family foundation; in fact, James Dobson is one of my favorite authors and experts in early childhood development and understanding the dynamics of the family. I think he is an amazing individual and godly man; therefore, when his company sponsored this book, I felt it appropriate to read.
Got to say that I disagree with the assessment of Mr. Dobson made by Anonymous.
ReplyDeleteJames Dobson, while probably a good man, writes and says many worldy things that have no sound basis in scripture and that I would never count as good advice for the Christian family.
And while I don't push our personal convictions on other people, or even bring them up unless asked, I do find it interesting that so many people feel the need to make excuses to me when they find out I do things a little more conservatively.
My beef is not necessarily with Halloween, or any other day, but with the attitudes many Christians take towards those of us who choose not to participate - like we're the bad ones, or ridiculous, or holier than thou, which just isn't the case.
I agree with you, Mel.
ReplyDeleteI have tried to read numerous books written by Mr. Dobson and have not finished a one. And I love to read. I actually quit my subscription to focus on the family because I felt that a lot of the articles that were written were too worldly minded. A little scripture intermixed with a lot of secular-consevative ideas. I personally have stopped reading most Christian self help, child rearing, marriage healing books. The bible has been my main source of go to for a couple of years now.